I believe every time we feel frustration, it means we've really stopped relying on God. That might sound like a bold statement to you, but think about it: God's given you and I His Holy Spirit and His grace to help us walk through anything that comes our way. Frustration hits when we stop depending on Him, when we stop relying on the sufficiency of His grace and try to make things happen our own way.
Understanding this really helped me. Every time I became frustrated, I reminded myself that what I was really doing was trying to take the place of the Holy Spirit. I was trying to be Holy Spirit Junior lool!
<<First Name>>, Do you struggle with an independent spirit?
When you refuse to depend on God, in essence, you're saying, "Okay, God, I appreciate that You're around, but watch me do this."
Depending on God for everything may be difficult, but it's the key to the victory we need every single day of our lives.
When God saved us, He didn't help us and then say, "Ok, that's it. You're on your own now!" He's eternally saved us, which means if we depend on Him, He will guide us and help us.
Galatians 5:16 urges us to "walk and live [habitually] in the [Holy] Spirit...then you will certainly not gratify the cravings and desires of the flesh".... Notice that it doesn't say "conquer the flesh independently...then you will certainly not gratify the desires of the flesh." No, it says to LIVE IN the Holy Spirit.
Choose to stop living independently and rely on the Holy Spirit. I promise you won't regret it!
I encourage you to pray, starting with this sentence, 'God, You are all I, <<First Name>>, need. Help me not to trust in myself, but to put my trust in You and to rely only on You. Let me rest in the sufficiency of your grace. I surrender all to you…withholding nothing. (Listen to that worship song).