BLOG ON SOCIAL INCLUSION
Authoritative parents and disobedient children: from good intentions to dangerous outcomes
Iva Eraković
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“I gave birth to you, so you will listen to me!”, “You can’t say no to me!”, “You have to listen to him – he’s older”, “As long as you live under my roof, it’s going to be as I say!”, “You don’t need to think, do as you’re told”. These are just some of the usual clichéd phrases we have heard, lived through, used, or suffered. They are most frequently said by parents convinced that unconditional obedience in children is positive and necessary, but they are also used by educators, teachers, while later in life they can be heard in similar variations from mentors, bosses, partners… Full text |